Friday, April 06, 2007

Harry Potter and the Slacker Mom


[From April 6, 2007] OK. So a mere 8 months later, I am writing my second blog. Not a good record so far, but at least I am writing again. I think I was intimidated by the idea of this blog being "published" for others to read--even though publication in this case is somewhat obscure. I never felt like I had the time (and frankly, haven't even remembered this blog often) to write and edit and create a complete "work." But I have decided to write stream of consciousness about what I am doing - regardless of whether it is uplifting spiritually or not. The editor behind my eyes is looking down on this with dismay, but I am trudging on undaunted. Otherwise where will I get my writing legs back? Writing email is not exactly a creative endeavor.

So the topic of today's blog is "Harry Potter and the Slacker Mom" Somewhat belatedly, I have begun reading the Harry Potter series in earnest. After four movies (all of which I have seen) and six books (none of which I had read) I decided it was indeed time to do just that--read the Harry Potter books. I came to this decision due to the fact that the last movie was thoroughly chopped up -- I knew it must be missing more than a few fragments --, and because I love to read good books.

A friend who not only has read all of the books but owns them too, suggested that I read them all--"start at the beginning" she pronounced without so much as a slight hesitation. So I did. Now what may be almost 4 weeks later, I have read through book 5. No small feat I might add, as book 5 "Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix" was over 800 pages and read in 5 days. (My family is thoroughly ready for my return to real life and keeping up with all of the things that slide when I am engrossed in a book--much less a whole series!) I picked up book 6 at the library today, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince.

[June 15, 2007] I wrote the previous (and more which I deleted due to space and interest) more than 2 months ago. I did read HP and the Half-Blood Prince and am eagerly awaiting the arrival of the last book in the series in July (which my mom-in-law ordered for me as a Mother’s Day gift!)

I have avoided all extracurricular reading since that series. But it hasn’t had a profound impact on my ability to keep house. I continue to be a slacker mom--just not one with a mission like reading through a series in 5 weeks. I don’t understand my inability---

oh...wait...maybe I do understand something of the nature of why....even as I type I am being asked to help with a video game which I dutifully try and fail to do (my son is much better at those things than I), the laundry is beeping, my 2 year old is crying so I pour a glass of juice for him, and my boys spill their cereal on the floor three times which I must vacuum up and while doing so find chocolate sauce in the carpet from sometime since last night when I made it--I clean that up too while keeping the puppy (yes, PUPPY!) from licking it along with the cleaner I just used to clean it, and the laundry is still beeping like every 20 seconds, and my 7 year old is calling to ask for my help again, and now my 2 year old is sitting in my lap and trying to get me to drink his juice (and I can’t figure out how to make this sentence flow any better, so it’ll just have to do as is.)

The idea of writing without distraction is as foreign to me as living on the moon at the moment. Fortunately, my husband doesn’t complain about the house or the fact that I haven’t been able to make meals regularly for some time, or that he runs out of clean underwear occasionally. And he wants me to write more (I think he hopes there is money in it someday--but I wouldn’t be too sure about that.) So I am writing again--distractions and all. I know some of you can relate. And if you stick with me long enough, someday, I will say, “I am writing from the pleasant distraction free zone of my local Starbuck’s patio with a warm breeze licking my earlobes and cool mocha filling my belly.” Or something like that.